Big hugs, Michele. Sending healing thoughts to your daughter. Shocked at the driver’s comment and I can’t help wondering what caused her to be distracted. In the U.K., breatholising is standard and she wouldn’t be able to drive away if she was above the limit. I would hope it was the same anywhere. As for using phones while driving, that makes my blood boil. There is no good reason to risk lives in order to check your phone.