I love love love this, Chris!

I have a few male friends who typically have more female than male friends but are not effeminate in the slightest. I do think it's a sign of being more in touch with yourself and less driven by needing to mask or fall in line with stereotypes.

Equally, the women I connect with less are the ones who tend to stick in groups of women, and are seemingly more comfortable with men who fit with the old stereotypes.

Being human - that's where the real fun is!