I'm suddenly thrown back to being 20, staying out until 9pm on a long summer's evening, and then on my way home, passing my mum in the car out looking for me. I mean, this was the city of Oxford. It's a small city but still, hardly small enough to expect to find your daughter if she's been kidnapped or is on a bender. Luckily I wasn't either of those. I was just out until 9...