Poor woman. I never knew that women consider what they will look like after death but I suspect that, if she was considering this, she thought she may have been discovered sooner. I know I would not want loved ones to suffer from the not-knowing. My ex-partner lost his dad to suicide when he was fourteen and days passed before they heard that he had been discovered. My ex described the trauma of waiting with no clue what was to come and it must have been awful.