Your feelings are completely justified, Klara. You have been put through the wringer and your feelings count.
But remember…You have helped your grandchildren to cultivate true compassion for their mother. It’s not you or her this is going to benefit primarily but the kids. Yes, your daughter is fortunate that she has such kind and loving children, despite everything, but her own world must be a pretty dark one, and that’s nothing to be jealous about.
You need to be proud that you have given your children the love and support they needed to grow into such wholesome humans ♥️♥️